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I had been checking my Book My Show app every Friday since 2 months to catch up on a Tamil movie and my excitement knew no bound when I saw Kaatru Veliyidai listed on the app. Finally!! At last!!! Sigh of relief!! Maniratnam movie, AR Rahman music, Hero Karthi, terrific combo… Watched the movie one day after the release, Saturday.



It’s almost a week after the release of Kaatru Veliyidai(Tamil)/Cheliyaa(Telugu) and I am still reeling in from the after effects of the movie in my head. Lot’s been said and written about the movie being a colossal disappointment despite brilliant cinematography and soul stirring music (ARR, you are a magician sir _/\_). I tried not to think about the movie except a one-line review about the movie in FB. But the story still haunts me during my bus travel to office despite my continuous efforts to avoid it. So yup, let’s face it, what’s gone wrong?

Spoilers ahead so don’t please read ahead if you don’t want to know the story.




Captain VC (Karthi) is a fighter pilot who meets with a serious accident and he’s treated by Dr. Leela Abraham (Aditi Rao Hydari). They fall in love and that’s when Leela comes to know about Karthi’s self centered, misogynistic attitude. The problem is not with VC. Karthi fits the character perfectly.  The problem is with Mani Sir’s depiction of Dr. Leela. At the beginning she’s shown as the woman who is against violence on women. When VC drags her away from snowstorm, she makes her point clear by saying, “Don’t force me using your power, I don't like men who use violence on women, a simple explanation would do”. He heeds in and manages to pull her away from the sandstorm.




In one of the instances where fighter pilots have a discussion on Kargil affairs, Leela talks in favour of the govt. VC asks her to shut up. Now Leela wears the Officer cap and puts across her justification. And that’s when VC becomes angry and asks her to put down the cap. He twists her hand and says, “Man is man and Woman is woman. Man is meant to hunt and Woman is meant to look beautiful and..”  Before he could finish, she asks, “..to bear child?” He smiles and says, "yes, for that also". He pushes her away and she leaves the place. When he comes to Leela’s home, begs her pardon with a nice song, even audience is tricked into believing that he repents. Bigger shock arrives when Leela runs back to him crying. 

  • So he comes back, sings song. Leela forgives. 
  • He shows off to his friends about Leela's weakness, "Aren't you jealous guys? Call for a single malt". Man, you just begged her mercy a minute back. And yes, she forgives him. 
  • He disappears on the day of register marriage, the reason - he forgot. She forgives. 
  • He wants her to abort their baby. You guessed right. She forgives.



We are all for forgiveness. But when the same is mistaken for weakness, we are deeply disappointed in your depiction of Dr. Leela, sir. When we are used to brave Shaila Bhanu(Manisha Koirala) in Bombay, daring Shakti (Shalini) in Alaipayudhey, courageous Ragini (Aishwarya Rai) in Raavanan, Independent Tara (Nithya Menon) in OK Kanmani, Aditi Rao as forgiving Leela disappoints us. Where are those courageous women in Kaatru Veliyidai? Yes, the question is inevitable in our minds, why is Leela still with him? And the answer by Mani Ratnam sir is "All is fair in love and war". Like really? Then why the portrayal of Aditi in the beginning of the movie was of a headstrong woman. Your movie is so confusing, sir.

Forget all this and somehow we reach the climax where VC escapes Pakistan prison and finds his way back to Leela, he asks her, "Why didn't you come and meet me?". And the brilliant answer by a determined and willful army doctor is, "What if you didn't like me or our child?". *facepalm*
Thank God already, let's leave the theatre.

Kaatru Veliyidai Kannamma is a beautiful poem penned by Bharathiyar but where art thou, oh my Kannamma?
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Did someone say Nature? Oh yeah, I love it. I love Nature. Hiking, trekking, mountaineering, sleeping on the laps of nature, admiring the beauty of nature, basking in the goodness of nature, blah blah nature, I love it. Just kidding, nope, that’s not me. Nature excites me. To me, it’s just beautiful and I can’t use more adjectives. Ok let me stop this mokkai and come to the point. My first attempt at travelogue and I am nervous.

William’s native is Andaman Islands and we decided to spend at least 15 days there, since this was the first trip together after one year of marriage. We also planned for trips across Andaman covering Mayabandhar, Havelock Islands, Diglipur, Northbay, Ross Island, Baratang. I was excited; more excited when I came to know that we would get a chance to see Jarawas, native Andaman tribes on the way to Baratang.
So after first few days of meeting and greeting relatives, we set out for the planned trips. First stop was Havelock Islands


The cruise trip starts from Port Blair at 6.45 AM. After some sleeping, watching people dancing in the ship for DJ music, we reached Havelock at 9.15 AM. Accommodation was arranged nearby in a PWD guest house. We finished our breakfast in a hotel nearby and we set out to Elephanta beach. The motor boat ride was for 25 minutes and the sea is bordered by thick mangroves. The mangroves are so thick and beautiful, plush green and serves a delight to bird watchers. These mangroves are to watch out for, as crocodiles visit them once in a while. 




We reached Elephanta around 11AM and we had 3 full hours to have fun there. The paid activities included snorkeling, sea walking, motor biking in the water, etc. And each costs 1000/- per head.

The water bed was so beautiful with layers of green water and white sand. As much as I wanted to plunge into the sea for snorkeling, and boy, was I so scared of water. The 2 guys who took us to the sea gave us a basic training of how to stay on top of the water with the help of those plastic rings. And all four of us set out to snorkel. Hardly 3 meters from the shore gave us a beautiful view of corals. The sea bed was filled with vast beautiful corals and colorful fishes came out of those corals to see their announced visitors. Suddenly I was not scared of water anymore! We went farther and yes, that opened to a deep blue sea with vast corals. All those exotic fishes we find in NGC were swimming along, next to us. It was silent, calm, and much different from the roaring beach waves. We spent 40 minutes snorkeling and swam back to the beach. And those 40 minutes gone like poof. As much as I was scared of the water, I enjoyed so much snorkeling! An amazing experience that was!







~ scenes at snorkeling ~
I don’t think that sea walking would amuse me as much as snorkeling, so I didn’t attempt it. We had some fun in the beach including motor biking and it was 2 PM. We left for Havelock beach to have lunch there and catch some rest. We hired a bike in the evening and rode to Radhanagar beach to witness the sunset. It is that sunset you would see in the wall posters, even more beautiful than that.  By the time we came back from Radhanagar beach, it was 8PM and we set out for pub crawling. On the way we did some shopping buying souvenirs. We visited some pubs, motels and landed at this place called Fat Martin.  Amazing food, but sadly we had to wait till 10PM for live music to start.


~At Fat Martin~

Day 2: Kalapathar beach

Ok let me tell about the reason for the name : Kalapathar - Black Stone. During low tides, when the waves pull inside the sea, the black stones from the sea are seen and this is a common sight during low tide.




Since we visited Radhanagar beach in the late hours, we couldn’t enjoy the complete sunset view. But Kalapathar visit was in the wee hours next day and we had so much fun. The ride to the beach was so good, deep in the forest sidelined by the green sea waters, marble white sand. I have never seen a more beautiful place than this. We stopped in between to go into the woods towards the beach. The beach was deserted, so calm, undisturbed with a lonely boat. The smell of the sea combined with the scent of the woods would make anyone surrender to the nature. A lovely place!




Naure's way of smiling at you even when when you harm it


After beach, we stopped for a relaxing Ayurved massage, had a quick lunch and then headed to guest house.  At 3.30 PM we started our return journey carrying beautiful memories waving good bye to those green waves.

Suggestion
Havelock faces lot of power cuts.  There are hardly any cell phone signals and no internet.  Some restaurants welcome people with free Wi-Fi but don’t fall for it as the signal is ultra poor. When you get back from the beach, you feel like being in the Stone Age. I had to wait for 20 days to come back to mainland and upload the pictures :P

The Island is very small and maintenance of the island should not be as difficult as that of mainland. Roads are bad. When India has such an amazing place, more beautiful than Thailand and Mauritius, why not improve the condition of the beaches, lay proper roads, make it a face of India, increase beach fun activities and attract tourists from all over the world? And for anyone who argues against commercialization of the island, I might be wrong. Your views are welcome.

However it’s an amazing place for people who don’t bother about internet, they could rest in the shacks, have beer, enjoy amazing food and admire the exotic beach.

This comes to the end of my Havelock experience. See you soon in the next post for my Baratang experience. And I guess my prologue will have a justification there.

Till then,
Much love.




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Hey all,

I believe everyone, irrespective of gender, celebrated Women's Day last month. At least my FB timeline said so.. So happy to see everyone celebrating their mothers, sisters, girl-friends, wives and daughters. Yes, the inevitable happened. So many feminist talks and discussions, some for it, some against it, some don't even know what feminism is! This was just a random conversation between me and my husband that happened last month and almost this month too! Let's be prepared for this monthly ritual :-) :-)

William [H]: So what's the dreaded F-word?

Me [M]: Why are you asking me this? As if you don't know. You use it hundred times a day.

H: Oh no, not that. What is Feminism?

M:  Oh, Feminism. Feminism means equal rights for women; equal rights, equal respect, equal pay for women. We seek equality in everything. Be it a job, be it kitchen work, be the dress we want to wear, basically EVERYTHING. Freedom of choice. My choice, My rules.

H: Is it necessary? Does it work out in a country like India?

M: See, this is what you call male chauvinism. Do you want us to spend half of our lifetime in kitchen, cooking for you, washing vessels and doing chores always?

H: No, I didn’t mean that. And I am certainly not a chauvinist. I am happy that you are a working woman, earning your own money.

M: No, I could still choose to be a housewife and still be a feminist; working, not working doesn’t matter. You men are bound to share all the chores with your wife. Sharing is not only caring, but also a responsibility.

H: Then when do I take rest after all that working so hard for the whole week?

M: So? Do I take rest on weekends? I still get up, prepare food, clean house, etc, etc.

H: Fair enough! I will do half of the work. Sharing is my responsibility.

M: Dude, we got to buy groceries for this month? When are we going to supermarket?

H: You do the shopping na. I am really tired.  Don’t carry anything home. Just pay and ask them to deliver home.

M: Cool, give me money. I don’t have any.

H: Arey, you just received your salary. Pay for groceries.

M: NO, MY MONEY IS MY MONEY. YOUR MONEY IS OUR MONEY.

H: Haa! So what’s that feminism you were talking about?

M: Dude, don’t change the topic. Transfer some cash to my account.

H: But feminism means equallll……..…

M: *runs to kitchen*  You said coffee, right?

Mobile beeps  “Money Sent”

Mind Voice:  FeminismFeminismFeminism. Hahahahahahaaa!!!!!

This is a light hearted take on the feminism that feminists rave about. The reality is a far cry. Let’s talk soon.


Until then,
Much Love. 

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